Let It Go
A few weeks ago I was at the Wellness Fair at Sick Kids Hospital. I was sitting down at the booth sipping on my green tea latte watching all kinds of people walking past me; young, old, men, women, children, tall, short, thin, fat, doctors, patients, etc. I sat back and started to watch people just move. What I thought would be such a boring activity turned into such a surprising revelation. Almost every person I observed was holding tension somewhere in their body; shoulders scrunched up to their ears, wrist tightness, stiff neck, belly sucker, tight hips, tense face and the list goes on. In between the time we are born and when we die, we go through the ups and downs of life and the stresses, change and joy it brings along with it. Our bodies go through major wear and tear from both physical and emotional experiences. We pick up bad habits and certain areas of our bodies compensate for other areas in our body. The functionality of our bodies start to change and we don’t even realize it.
When I was seven-years old, I went over a railing and fell down two flights of stairs and landed hard on my bum. It was a traumatic experience for me. My parents didn’t think to take me to the hospital because within a few minutes I was able to stand up and walk and wasn’t experiencing any pain. For a couple of weeks after, I dreaded going to the washroom because I would sometimes get a sharp pain in my lower back. The pain eventually went away and life went on and I forgot about it. It wasn’t until twenty years later that I discovered that I was holding so much tension in my lower body due to that experience. I held onto that experience in my lower back, pelvis, hamstrings and hips and instead of releasing the tension I held in these areas, I compensated by constantly holding my belly in, holding my breath and many other things that I am now trying to reverse. With knowing all this information today, I am doing the work now to undo all the compensating I’ve been doing for many, many years.
If we do not do the work in releasing the tension in our bodies and we hold onto it, our bodies become tighter and less functional. If left without any kind of release, it starts to affect other parts of our body, our breathing and our day-to-day activities resulting in pain, frustration and irritation. If perhaps we knew we were holding tension in our bodies, we would make more of an effort to get to the bottom of why it was happening in the first place. Rarely, if we’re experiencing tension in a particular area in our body is that the originating cause. In almost all cases, it is simply an area of where the body has chosen to manifest. It could be an old injury, a negative childhood experience, an illness, stress, whatever the cause; I think we can all agree that it’s time for some letting go and healing. A great saying that I read in a book from an unknown source is “If we listened to our bodies when it was whispering, we would avoid having our bodies scream at us in the future.”




